To prevent bullying we take the inverse and return it within to the person being bullied. Let's see why. The bully thrives in a world where images and perception is affected by what the public opinion is.
The bully has noticed that they can just say things to someone and taking offense they will be hurt, derailed. In the modern age of bullying, technology has served that purpose as a form of mob gathering or attacking with mob mentality. The influencer or the most powerful online persona can become a unintentional vehicle for harassment or intentional if that is what their interaction is. However none of this has meaning or effect if what others thought in masses was not so prevalent over the heads of others, in such a way that it no longer has that ability.
A bully is given power by those that find the offense. Otherwise the bully has no moves that affect the normally image conscientious mind. The bully attacks the ego which is hurt often in children their unawareness of themselves is a growing pain that results in feeling short or too tall or not cool and too geeky or vice versa.
These image projections are often what the bully is going through themselves in whatever insecurity they have.
Solving the bully is solving oneself, the bully is just a reflection. If one is not hurt the bully is left to their own devices to reflect to themselves.
We place too much on the power they hold over us with just words which don't hold anything.
Be stronger than the perception of the masses and learn to be yourself!
Mr. Everything
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