The biggest mistake we have made is in the imitation of others when it comes to being ourselves. Our animal brain that needed to imitate because it could not produce from insight was being stifled and held along by this genetical requirement to get us up to a point where we can not move on our own. Just like the service of the father and mother that bring us up to a certain point, the instincts embed'd in the genetics played an important part in enabling intelligence. The search for a computer that can think on it's own is even more common that can be instilled in human expectation of themselves. Thinking on our own, is uncommonly expected when we spend much of our lives trying to become others that we find have better qualities than us. Of course they do, we are young and have just begun to step into ourselves. The brain is still going and we have already concluded. Ended the discovery of ourselves. Whenever there is someone that is being themselves it is common for others to compare themselves with their qualities and see some thing in themselves that they failed to develop.
To be oneself which is usually a pressure associated with time and age is often misconceived in that, "we all know that age does not dictate a maturity or a sense of self-awareness". One is not expected to be smarter or wiser just cause they age. These mis-conceptions are pressures for older people who have spent time trying to grow up too fast, and do things that others are doing.
From High School and all the way up this becomes more apparent, often times these have the causation of making us choose a career that is not reflective of our truth, but our seeking to become someone important, in film, or finance or whatever.
Is it possible for someone who is not true to themselves in who they are, to even be happy? Or be true in their present state to themselves. Would they know if they are actually happy? Or that what they are being comes from genuine being, and not something expected of them, or something that they have created as an external appearance for the sake of others approval.
Can someone whois afraid of being, be themselves? A person that is present, happy, can they come about as a result of being something that they are not?
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